I finally was able to wear this set last night and oh man was I feeling myself!!!! I don't have a flat stomach and I didn't feel self-conscious about my stomach and I didn't look sloppy at all. This set is very flattering no matter your body type. I'm 5'4" about 128 lbs but I have a belly so I ordered a M since Egi said there's no stretch in the skirt waist. It fit perfectly. The ONLY thing is I couldn't wear underwear because all my thongs have lace in the back and the material imprint showed. Again, the skirt wasn't tight at all but I think I need to get seamless undies (cough cough Egi, we're waiting LOL) to see if that does the trick. I wore it on date night so hubbie wasn't upset about the no panties! I felt so beautiful and girlie!!!! Keep it up By E!!!!!